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EVS_Dad2BThu Jul-29-10 08:18 PM
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Hello. I have been lurking on this board for several months to help prepare for the arrival of our family. Thank you for the information that has been shared.

My story is a somewhat unique road to parenthood in a truly modern family seeking 'happily ever after.' In a nutshell, I'm 1/2 of a same-sex couple from New Jersey who are expecting triplets, of a sort, through a surrogacy arrangement in India.

With the understanding of a presumed 50% success rate, my partner and I split and fertilized eggs from one egg donor and then transferred embryos into 2 surrogates hoping for a successful pregnancy. We planned to use our remaining frozen embryos for a sibling project sometime in the future.

To our joyous surprise, we have been blessed beyond belief with 2 ongoing healthy pregnancies....and one surrogate is carrying twins. We are calling our new-world triplets - twingletons! We are due in October and can't wait for every life-changing moment that is coming.

I have a zillion questions about a hundred topics but figured it would be best to introduce myself first.

Thanks again for the information and support structure that has been shared by this community!!!

  

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Kealoha12Thu Jul-29-10 08:27 PM
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#470623, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Edward and Paul, congratulations! Before you know it, your trio will be here! My ob-gyn had a patient in a similar situation as yours--but with twins: two surrogates, one baby each, though the babies were a month apart in due dates and each surrogate lived in a different cities from the parents--talk about a juggling act!

Anyways, I wish you guys a long, healthy pregnancies and big, fat full term babies!

Grace

B 06/03/03
BBB 05/24/08

  

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mfcThu Jul-29-10 08:36 PM
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#470624, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Hi Edward and Paul! Welcome to TC! I too am 1/2 of a same-sex couple with triplets in New Jersey. Since the beginning of my pregnancy, this website has been a wonderful resource for me and my family. Please feel free to write to me via "personal message". I'd love to hear more about you and answer any questions you might have.

--Melissa

Laila, Fineas, and Yitzhak
born 10/6/08 @ 36 wks

  

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pbinakThu Jul-29-10 09:28 PM
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#470639, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome! Love your story - how cool is that? I also hope you are facing long, uneventful pregnancies and healthy babies this fall.
Best of luck!
Petra
DS 08/02
DD 05/04
BBG 05/09 32.1 weeks

  

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Mamakitten3Thu Jul-29-10 10:53 PM
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#470643, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Thats an amazing story! Congrats and Welcome!

BBG 6/21/06
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mrjgrovesFri Jul-30-10 07:39 AM
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#470647, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Hi there and welcome! I love your story! My sister is 1/2 of a same-sex couple and they each had a child... my sweet nieces that are gifts from God!

We are on the same path it seems, our trips are due 10/10 but obviously we won't make it that far. 29 weeks and 3 days today!

So I noticed you were from NJ. We just moved to NJ a few months ago and I haven't really had the chance to get out at all.

If you don't mind, message me and tell me what area you guys are living? We can trade tips and suggestions to get us through this circus since our babes will be so close in age!

We are living in the Sparta area...so far away from a lot of things it seems but we decided to go ahead and get a place big enough for our growing family. I am sure it will be better when I can get off the couch and explore! These days I am only venturing out to the doctor!

Good luck and keep me posted!!

Melissa

BBG - due 10/10

  

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CoriannderFri Jul-30-10 07:46 AM
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#470649, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Your story is awesome! Congratulations!!

Cori
GBG born at 36w2d on 5/25/10
Baby A: 5lb 12oz
Baby B: 6lb 13oz
Baby C: 6lb. 1oz

  

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momof7girlsFri Jul-30-10 07:51 AM
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#470652, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Love your story!!! Welcome and congratulations!

Jessika mom of
identical GGG born 11.21.01
girl 7yrs
girl 6yrs
girl 5yrs
girl 3yrs
girl 1yr...yes, that's 8 girls now
boy 6months

  

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k3tripletsFri Jul-30-10 07:53 AM
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#470653, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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What a wonderful story! Welcome and here's to 2 uneventful pregnancies !

Susanne

gbg @ 31.6
5/2006

  

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scottnikFri Jul-30-10 08:52 AM
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#470656, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome and congrats on your 3 babies on the way

Nik
GBG triplets born 4/2/05
30w5d
www.thebestthingscomein3.blogspot.com

  

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susanwmFri Jul-30-10 09:04 AM
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#470657, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Congratulations and welcome. What a great story!

Susan
GGB @ 36w 2d

  

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SAReeceFri Jul-30-10 09:05 AM
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#470658, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome and congratulations! Love the story!

Shely~ Mom to 1+GGB
http://thehansontriplets.blogspot.com/
http://www.marchforbabies.org/team/TeamLilyGrace

  

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auntieanneFri Jul-30-10 09:09 AM
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#470659, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Hi Edward and Paul!! Congratulations and welcome! Thanks for sharing your amazing story!!

Anne
mommy to 5yr old Erin and
GGG triplets born 4/4/08 @36 weeks
Nora 5lbs
Evelyn 6 lbs 4oz
Maeve 6lbs 2oz

  

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MeriFri Jul-30-10 02:11 PM
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#470669, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome and congrats!

GBG born 9/23/09

  

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carebe7475Fri Jul-30-10 02:44 PM
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#470670, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome to the TC family! Looking forward for updates on your 'trips'!

Take care.

B?? due 1/11

  

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TripleFeverFri Jul-30-10 03:03 PM
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#470671, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome Edward & Paul! We are also two daddies expecting triplets. Our surrogate is in the US and we are 27 weeks pregnant today! We transferred two embryos and ended up with three! Go figure!

Hope you have a long and uneventful pregnancy and a safe delivery. If you want to PM me, please feel free to do so!

  

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webjediFri Jul-30-10 04:12 PM
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#470672, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Wow! What an awesome story...I admit I had to take notes and make a flow chart at first.

Keep us updated!

Ryan & Megan
GGG Born 8/9/10 28 weeks 5 days
Lily Ann 2lbs 12oz.
Emma Grace 2lbs 6oz.
Abigail Rose 2lbs 7oz.
http://thesmithfamilytriplets.blogspot.com/

  

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EVS_Dad2BFri Jul-30-10 05:00 PM
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#470675, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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THANK YOU for the warm welcome.

It is a very nice feeling to receive good wishes from virtual strangers who have been/are going through any journey to parenthood, especially of multiples!

In surrogacy, it is important to stay connected to 'our' pregnancies, regardless of the number of time zones in between us and our growing babies. So, we have been reading as many books, blogs, and forums that we can find...taking classes at our local hospital ('Happiest Baby on the Block' next week!)...and writing on our blog as well as in private journals to attempt to prepare ourselves for the unpreparable!

Thanks again for all this forum graciously offers!

We look forward to learning LOTS from each of you.

  

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MumfordTripletsFri Jul-30-10 06:01 PM
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#470681, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Congratulations!!!

Karen
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SabbraFri Jul-30-10 07:46 PM
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#470687, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Congratulations!!!

Mom to
Mario 2 lb 1 oz NICU 76 days
Luigi 2 lb 3 oz NICU 76 days
& Peach 1 lb 9 oz NICU 109 days
Born at 27 weeks

  

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tripletgggmomSat Jul-31-10 02:28 PM
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#470711, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Hey! Congratulations and welcome to the board!! That's great that you have all these babies on the way! We are here to help you out whenever you need it!

Christy

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TARAinFLSat Jul-31-10 02:46 PM
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#470713, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Welcome to the family!!

Tara

Mom to BBG born at 33wks on 4/3/03

  

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1plustripletsSun Aug-01-10 05:39 PM
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#470758, "RE: Introduction/Non-Traditional Family"
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Congratulations! How exciting for the both of you! You can find a lot of us Facebook too!

Kristina
divorced MOM
Megan 7/26/00 Blessed Adoption
Abigail, Brigid, Caroline 6/28/03 IVF

www.tripletsplus1.blogspot.com

  

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